Party Guide

It’s My First Time: How does it work with you?

If you’ve never attended one of our parties and you’re wondering how everything works, the information below will help you understand!

1 | Online registration

If this is your very first time attending one of our parties, we need to perform a quick verification of your request once you’ve created an account on our website. We want to provide a safe space for our participants and protect our anonymity from the general public. That’s why we need to check who is coming to our events.

When you create an account on our site, you will need to provide your first name (or your Pup name), your real phone number, and a valid email address. Later, you’ll need to complete your profile with a Recon/Gayromeo/Instagram/Facebook/X account related to the fetish theme. If you don’t have an account on these platforms/apps, we will contact you by email or phone and ask for a photo of you wearing the dress code for the chosen party.

We understand that this may seem restrictive compared to what happens elsewhere. However, we are an association, not a cruising club, which means access is controlled.

Please note: this verification is done only once! All your other registrations for parties via the website will be automatically approved.

At previous events, some guys signed up for a party and never showed up without even letting us know. That’s not very polite. So when you register for an event, make sure you can attend or, if something prevents you from coming, just send us a quick message.

2 | During the parties: A few basic rules

Now you’re ready to go to our venue! You’ll easily find the address in your private space after creating your account on our website!

Your arrival

When you ring the doorbell, you’ll be welcomed by a committee member who will invite you to change in the dedicated space, or if you’re already in gear, to head downstairs to the club. Then, you’ll check in with another committee member, who will give you a number and suggest storing your valuables (keys, wallet, mobile phone, etc.) in a pouch or a box. The number you wear around your neck will be your ID for the whole evening. You’ll need to show it every time you order a drink at the bar.

Attitude toward participants and committee members

During the evening, you’ll interact with other participants. Please be courteous, respectful of others and the venue, considerate, and respect consent. The purpose of our association is to encourage conversation between participants, which doesn’t prevent you from having fun in the spaces designed for that.

Committee members volunteer their time during events to give you the best experience possible. They’re not there to have fun with participants. If you want to play with one of them, that can happen outside of event time.

Drugs, health prevention and alcohol

We do not tolerate the use of illegal drugs inside or around the venue, in any form. For that, your home might be a more suitable place.

We provide, free of charge, health information and prevention materials from our partner “Empreinte Fribourg”, which specializes in this area. Feel free to help yourself—it’s free!

We are aware that by serving alcoholic beverages, some people may drink more than usual. We count on your responsibility to avoid getting into a state that would require emergency assistance. Also, if a committee member refuses to serve you an alcoholic drink, please respect their decision. Otherwise, you will be politely asked to leave the venue.

3 | When it’s time to leave… Because all good things come to an end

At the end of the party, before leaving, you will return the number given to you upon arrival, retrieve your belongings, and settle your drinks bill (and entry fee if you’re not a member). Yes, you pay everything when you leave—it’s much simpler for everyone!